How to answer questions in a helpful way (2024)

Your coworker asks you a slightly unclear question. How do you answer? I think asking questionsis a skill (see How to ask good questions) and that answering questionsin a helpful way is also a skill! Both of them are super useful.

To start out with – sometimes the people asking you questions don’t respectyour time, and that sucks. I’m assuming here throughout that that’s not whathappening – we’re going to assume that the person asking you questions is areasonable person who is trying their best to figure something out and that youwant to help them out. Everyone I work with is like that and so that’s theworld I live in :)

Here are a few strategies for answering questions in a helpful way!

If they’re not asking clearly, help them clarify

Often beginners don’t ask clear questions, or ask questions that don’t have the necessary information to answer the questions. Here are some strategies you can use to help them clarify.

  • Rephrase a more specific question back at them (“Are you asking X?”)
  • Ask them for more specific information they didn’t provide (“are you using IPv6?”)
  • Ask what prompted their question. For example, sometimes people come into my team’s channel with questions about how our service discovery works. Usually this is because they’re trying to set up/reconfigure a service. In that case it’s helpful to ask “which service are you working with? Can I see the pull request you’re working on?”

A lot of these strategies come from the how to ask good questions post. (though I would neversay to someone “oh you need to read this Document On How To Ask Good Questionsbefore asking me a question”)

Figure out what they know already

Before answering a question, it’s very useful to know what the person knows already!

Harold Treen gave me a great example of this:

Someone asked me the other day to explain “Redux Sagas”. Rather than dive in and say “They are like worker threads that listen for actions and let you update the store!”
I started figuring out how much they knew about Redux, actions, the store and all these other fundamental concepts. From there it was easier to explain the concept that ties those other concepts together.

Figuring out what your question-asker knows already is important because they maybe confused about fundamental concepts (“What’s Redux?”), or they may be anexpert who’s getting at a subtle corner case. An answer building on conceptsthey don’t know is confusing, and an answer that recaps things they know istedious.

One useful trick for asking what people know – instead of “Do you know X?”,maybe try “How familiar are you with X?”.

Point them to the documentation

“RTFM” is the classic unhelpful answer to a question, but pointing someone to aspecific piece of documentation can actually be really helpful! When I’m askinga question, I’d honestly rather be pointed to documentation that actuallyanswers my question, because it’s likely to answer other questions I have too.

I think it’s important here to make sure you’re linking to documentation thatactually answers the question, or at least check in afterwards to make sure ithelped. Otherwise you can end up with this (pretty common) situation:

  • Ali: How do I do X?
  • Jada: <link to documentation>
  • Ali: That doesn’t actually explain how to X, it only explains Y!

If the documentation I’m linking to is very long, I like to point out thespecific part of the documentation I’m talking about. The bash man page is 44,000 words (really!), so justsaying “it’s in the bash man page” is not that helpful :)

Point them to a useful search

Often I find things at work by searching for some Specific Keyword that I know will find me the answer. That keyword might not be obvious to a beginner! So saying “this is the search I’d use to find the answer to that question” can be useful. Again, check in afterwards to make sure the search actually gets them the answer they need :)

Write new documentation

People often come and ask my team the same questions over and over again. This is obviously not the fault of the people (how should they know that 10 people have asked this already, or what the answer is?). So we’re trying to, instead of answering the questions directly,

  1. Immediately write documentation
  2. Point the person to the new documentation we just wrote
  3. Celebrate!

Writing documentation sometimes takes more time than just answering the question, but it’s often worth it! Writing documentation is especially worth it if:

a. It’s a question which is being asked again and againb. The answer doesn’t change too much over time (if the answer changes every week or month, the documentation will just get out of date and be frustrating)

Explain what you did

As a beginner to a subject, it’s really frustrating to have an exchange like this:

  • New person: “hey how do you do X?”
  • More Experienced Person: “I did it, it is done.”
  • New person: ….. but what did you DO?!

If the person asking you is trying to learn how things work, it’s helpful to:

  • Walk them through how to accomplish a task instead of doing it yourself
  • Tell them the steps for how you got the answer you gave them!

This might take longer than doing it yourself, but it’s a learning opportunityfor the person who asked, so that they’ll be better equipped to solve suchproblems in the future.

Then you can have WAY better exchanges, like this:

  • New person: “I’m seeing errors on the site, what’s happening?”
  • More Experienced Person: (2 minutes later) “oh that’s because there’s a database failover happening”
  • New person: how did you know that??!?!?
  • More Experienced Person: “Here’s what I did!”:
    1. Often these errors are due to Service Y being down. I looked at $PLACE and it said Service Y was up. So that wasn’t it.
    2. Then I looked at dashboard X, and this part of that dashboard showed there was a database failover happening.
    3. Then I looked in the logs for the service and it showed errors connecting to the database, here’s what those errors look like.

If you’re explaining how you debugged a problem, it’s useful both to explain how you found out what the problem was, and how you found out what the problem wasn’t. While it might feel good to look like you knew the answer right off the top of your head, it feels even better to help someone improve at learning and diagnosis, and understand the resources available.

Solve the underlying problem

This one is a bit tricky. Sometimes people think they’ve got the right path toa solution, and they just need one more piece of information to implement thatsolution. But they might not be quite on the right path! For example:

  • George: I’m doing X, and I got this error, how do I fix it
  • Jasminda: Are you actually trying to do Y? If so, you shouldn’t do X, you should do Z instead
  • George: Oh, you’re right!!! Thank you! I will do Z instead.

Jasminda didn’t answer George’s question at all! Instead she guessed thatGeorge didn’t actually want to be doing X, and she was right. That is helpful!

It’s possible to do this in a condescending way though, like:

  • George: I’m doing X, and I got this error, how do I fix it?
  • Jasminda: Don’t do that, you’re trying to do Y and you should do Z to accomplish that instead.
  • George: Well, I am not trying to do Y, I actually want to do X because REASONS. How do I do X?

So don’t be condescending, and remember that the person asking may actuallywant to do X for reasons that you don’t know about! It might be appropriate toanswer both the question they asked and the one you think they might need theanswer to instead: “Well, if you want to do X then you might try this, but ifyou’re trying to solve problem Y with that, you might have better luck doingthis other thing, and here’s why that’ll work better”.

Ask “Did that answer your question?”

I always like to check in after I think I’ve answered the question and ask“did that answer your question? Do you have more questions?”.

It’s good to pause and wait after asking this because often people need aminute or two to know whether or not they’ve figured out the answer. Iespecially find this extra “did this answer your questions?” step helpful afterwriting documentation! Often when writing documentation about something I knowwell I’ll leave out something very important without realizing it.

Offer to pair program/chat in real life

I work remote, so many of my conversations at work are text-based. I think ofthat as the default mode of communication.

Today, we live in a world of easy video conferencing & screensharing! At work Ican at any time click a button and immediately be in a video call/screensharingsession with someone. Some problems are easier to talk about using yourvoices!

For example, recently someone was asking about capacity planning/autoscalingfor their service. I could tell there were a few things we needed to clear upbut I wasn’t exactly sure what they were yet. We got on a quick video call and5 minutes later we’d answered all their questions.

I think especially if someone is really stuck on how to get started on a task,pair programming for a few minutes can really help, and it can be a lot moreefficient than email/instant messaging.

Don’t act surprised

This one’s a rule from the Recurse Center: no feigning surprise. Here’s arelatively common scenario

  • Human 1: “what’s the Linux kernel?”
  • Human 2: “you don’t know what the LINUX KERNEL is?!!!!?!!!???”

Human 2’s reaction (regardless of whether they’re actually surprised or not)is not very helpful. It mostly just serves to make Human 1 feel bad that theydon’t know what the Linux kernel is.

I’ve worked on actually pretending not to be surprised even when I actually ama bit surprised the person doesn’t know the thing and it’s awesome.

Answering questions well is awesome

Obviously not all these strategies are appropriate all the time, but hopefullyyou will find some of them helpful! I find taking the time to answer questionsand teach people can be really rewarding.

There’s an unofficial Chinese translation of this post here.

Special thanks to Josh Triplett for suggesting this post and making many helpful additions, and to Harold Treen, Vaibhav Sagar, Peter Bhat Harkins, Wesley Aptekar-Cassels, and Paul Gowder for reading/commenting.

How to answer questions in a helpful way (2024)

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How to answer questions in a helpful way? ›

Understand the Question: Read or Listen and grasp the question's core meaning. Summarize Key Points: Identify and condense the main elements of the question. Plan Your Response: Outline the structure of your answer, noting key ideas. Concise Opening: Start with a clear, direct response to the question.

What is a good way to answer a question? ›

Notice what happens.
  • Listen to the Question. Sounds simple, but with so many things calling for our attention, it's easy to be distracted and not hear what the question really is. ...
  • Pause. The second step is to pause long enough to take a breath from your diaphragm. ...
  • Repeat the Question. ...
  • Respond Honestly. ...
  • Know When to Stop.

How do you clearly answer a question? ›

Understand the Question: Read or Listen and grasp the question's core meaning. Summarize Key Points: Identify and condense the main elements of the question. Plan Your Response: Outline the structure of your answer, noting key ideas. Concise Opening: Start with a clear, direct response to the question.

How can I answer the question how can I help you? ›

If someone asks how they can help you, you don't want to jump all over it, shake their hand and walk away. After you tell them how they can help you, turn the question around to them and—this is the big part—be ready to follow up. It's even better if you can find a way to help them before they help you.

How do you respond to all good questions? ›

Glad to hear that. Thank you for the response. I'm good too. Ojay.

How to respond effectively? ›

How to respond to questions effectively
  1. Prepare for tough questions. ...
  2. Pause before responding. ...
  3. Monitor your body language. ...
  4. Reword the question. ...
  5. Take more time if you need to. ...
  6. Acknowledge the other person's emotions. ...
  7. Answer a portion of the question. ...
  8. Ask questions about the question.
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How to answer questions smartly? ›

First, make sure you understand the question

It's important to listen carefully, then pause for a moment and reflect. Make sure that you understand the question clearly before you answer it. If you're not clear about the question, ask a clarifying question of your own.

How to respond clearly? ›

Another technique that can help you answer questions in a concise and clear manner is to listen attentively to the question and make sure you understand it before you respond. You can do this by maintaining eye contact, nodding, and using verbal or non-verbal cues to show that you are paying attention.

How do you make good answers? ›

Here are a few tips on how to make your answer great:
  1. Read the question carefully. What is the question asking for? ...
  2. Provide context for links. ...
  3. Have the same problem? ...
  4. Write to the best of your ability. ...
  5. Pay it forward. ...
  6. Answer well-asked questions. ...
  7. Always be polite and have fun.

How are you answering in creative ways? ›

Here are some example answers:
  • “Fine. How are you?”
  • “I'm good. And you?”
  • “Can't complain! How are you?”“Pretty good. Excited for [upcoming event, season, or holiday]. ...
  • “I'm all right. Thanks.”
  • “I'd be better if it would stop raining!”
  • “Good enough for a Monday morning. How are you?”
  • “Living the dream.”
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How to answer how are you when you're not okay? ›

So, if someone asks “How are you?” and you're not feeling OK, you can say something like this: “I'm not going to lie, I don't feel very good.” “I'm struggling a bit.” “I'm not doing very well.”

What is the best way to answer do you have any questions? ›

Instead, try asking questions about the role. For example, you can ask about the day-to-day responsibilities. This is also an opportunity to get feedback on your candidacy. You can ask if you're missing any qualifications, for instance.

How can I get better at answering questions? ›

To master the ability to answer any question quickly, the single best habit you can cultivate is active listening. Active listening is a series of techniques that demonstrate your engagement with the speaker and, in turn, can help you internalize their words, equipping you to respond with focus and precision.

How do you have good replies? ›

After you've considered what was said to you and you've thought about what you want to say, speak clearly and confidently. Don't use vague or contradictory language to try to sound smarter or clever. People appreciate sincerity, so give them a genuine response that shows them that you care and that you understand them.

How do you write a good answer to a question? ›

Here are a few tips on how to make your answer great:
  1. Read the question carefully. What is the question asking for? ...
  2. Provide context for links. ...
  3. Have the same problem? ...
  4. Write to the best of your ability. ...
  5. Pay it forward. ...
  6. Answer well-asked questions. ...
  7. Always be polite and have fun.

What makes a good response to a question? ›

The best way to respond to a question someone asks is by actively listening to their question and providing a clear and concise answer.

What are answering techniques? ›

Follow these tips to giving your best answer each time:
  • Understand the question. ...
  • Don't babble. ...
  • Remember that you're the expert. ...
  • Keep your opinions to yourself. ...
  • Don't wing it. ...
  • Don't be critical. ...
  • Admit when you don't know the answer.

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